Books To Read By Torchlight

This year, Halloween is going to be a bit quieter.

No lavish costume parties or guising means much of the social element of this time of the year is thrown out of the window, so what can we do instead?

I think this is the year that we look to the old ways of celebrating - with folklore and myth. The classic ghost story can be found in nearly all cultures across the world and folklore is interwoven into our daily lives with old wives tales, ancient monuments, fairy stories and local legends. Be careful where you step in the Borders, as Red Caps stalk our forgotten battlefields and crumbling pele towers waiting to claw at you, howls echo across the hills from ghostly hellhounds, and the Eildons themselves hide an entrance into the fairy underland. The Borders is a place of myth and legend, and I’ve not met many Borderers who don’t have a wee tale of a paranormal or supernatural experience that they’re willing to share. My own grandfather claims to have heard the stampeding hooves of a ghostly reiving party at Black House off the Yarrow Valley, and whilst he was a joker in his lifetime this wasn’t a tall story he made up for entertainment. Even he himself has perhaps been seen as a ghostly figure on occasion in our building.

As I am sure you are gathering from the above - I love ghost stories and myths. There is so much joy to be found in the sharing of them - but alas we can’t all gather around the fire for a night of storytelling, so instead lets look to our books. I’ve selected a few of the ones that I have been reading this month, as well as favourites from years gone by. Why not visit your local bookshop, and read one under the covers, if you dare!

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The Haunting of Alma Fielding - Kate Somerville

Currently being featured on BBC Radio Four this week! Written as a story, but telling the factual events that happened in a paranormal investigation of a woman who was experiencing significant poltergeist activity in the 1930s. Was it genuine phenomena, or a brilliant fraud?

Cursed Britain - Thomas Waters

A very detailed look at the history of black magic and witchcraft in Britain. Not a ghost story itself, but still perfect for this time of year! I love my history and sometimes fact can be stranger than fiction. Who fancies a trip to Boscastle’s Museum of Witchcraft & Magic?

Hag: Forgotten Folktales Retold

I have yet to sink my teeth into this one as I only got my hands on a copy this week! A collection of reimagined folktales from Britain and Ireland, written by some of our most interesting women authors. I am particularly excited to read Imogen Hermes Gowar’s (author of the much lovedThe Mermaid & Mrs Hancock) contribution

Help The Witch - Tom Cox

Tom Cox is one of my favourite authors. Having produced several marvellous non fiction books, this was his first foray into fiction. A selection of short stories, I was so gripped by ‘Help the Witch’, that I initially forgot that it was just a story. What resulted was a feeling of genuine discomfort and terror - which did return when the backstory deepened in the later non-fiction ‘Ring the Hill’. For music lovers, there is also an accompanying concept album.

A Tomb With a View - Peter Ross

Another excellent nonfiction, with a darker theme. I will disclose that my childhood bedroom overlooked a graveyard (Of course it did. On reading this back I am starting to think my general weirdness & predisposition to anything spooky isn’t so strange) so I don’t find graveyards to be chilling at all. Instead they are peaceful havens full of whispers of the stories of past lives. Maybe it’s the archaeology degree coming out but - who is buried here? How did they live, and why did they die? This is the perfect book for anyone who asks the same questions. As an aside, if the subject intrigues you then keep an eye out for future performances of The Dark Carnival, a wonderful theatre piece that is as multifaceted as our real human lives are. Comical yet moving, showcasing the light and dark of our everyday lives. I would love to see it again - but there is also a fantastic album available to stream on Spotify. Listen to it with a whiskey, and perhaps a tissue for the more emotional moments.

The Silent Companions, The Corset & Bone China - Laura Purcell

Three recommendations in one! Laura Purcell is quite clearly another of my favourite authors, and essentially introduced me to gothic fiction outside of the usual suspects of Frankenstein, Dracula, etc. Once started, each book has to be read in one go because I couldn’t bear ‘not knowing’. The stories are brilliant & well developed - not sacrificed for the sake of gore or horror . The scares do indeed come though, ‘The Silent Companions’ was essentially a white knuckle ride and ‘Bone China’ left me considering whether to sleep with the lights on. I am really looking forward to Laura’s next book ‘The Shape of Darkness’ coming out next year, even more so because it includes a pug called Morpheus. Even if everyone else dies, let Morpheus live! Or perhaps ‘live on’ is the better turn of phrase….!

The Coffin Path - Katherine Clements

Ghostly phenomenon set in an isolated hilltop house on the moors. I don’t think I need to go on any further - a very good twist at the end that I really didn’t see coming. Funnily enough, I think about this book every time I watch ‘Our Yorkshire Farm’.

Paranormal Intruder - The Terrifying True Story of a Family in Fear - Caroline Mitchell

This is an apparently true story, and it is brilliant. The phenomena described is pretty daunting - reading it is like being stuck in a particularly demented episode of Most Haunted. Definitely calls to memory ‘Pipes’ from Ghostwatch. Even if you are a sceptic, I think you can still enjoy the ‘what if’ possibility that many of these books touch on.

I think I could go on and on with recommendations - whilst I am a wimp when it comes to scary films, clearly I am a glutton for punishment when it comes for scary stories. Whether a real life experience or just really good fiction - I want to hear and read it all! If you too are looking for something slightly more atmospheric to celebrate All Hallow’s Eve, then I hope something from the above catches your eye. Let me know what you think!

On a final note, the second full moon of this month falls on Halloween itself this year. We celebrated the Harvest Moon at the start of the month, however this full moon is known as the rather more chilling ‘Blood Moon’.

Sleep tight.

Toil & Trouble

Toil and Trouble seems to be an apt way to describe this year, and fits in rather well for the month that we are currently in. Unbelievably, we have made it to October, or ‘March +7’ in some circles. I will be using the same formula next July when I turn 29+1.

We’ll always look back on 2020 as a lost year, a point in history of deep turbulence and long lasting consequences. For those of us whose lives have been significantly affected by COVD, 2020 has felt like an endless spell in purgatory. Life is never linear however. If so far your life has been one beautiful upward curve, you have been incredibly fortunate but you ain’t done living yet. To quote Jurassic Park “Life, uh, finds a way” (the uh is very important). This is a post for when you feel that life has indeed thrown you a curveball that very much hit it’s mark.

Books have always been a comfort to me. I am a real bookworm and I read them for pleasure, for guidance, to relax and soothe, to energise, to take a walk in the past, or in somebody else’s shoes. The most wonderful quotation comes from George RR Martin and states “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies, and the one who doesn’t read, lives just one”. Hits the nail on the head, doesn’t he?

For this post, I have curated a selection of the books that have helped light a fire under me. These women have not had perfect lives - we all make mistakes and experience failures, but we can continue to learn from them. These women share the lessons they have learnt, and freely give their advice so that we can all grow. If you’ve found yourself having a dip - maybe just for a day, or maybe more long term - these are the books that I would recommend. Some are uplifting, some are inspirational, and some are there to show that we all experience the same highs and lows - it is part of being human. 2020 is the year where we have all collectively struggled together - regardless of what stage of life you are at, nobody has been left untouched by this pandemic. Shall we go for a more in-depth look into why these books made my shortlist?

Untamed - Glennon Doyle

I had not read any of Glennon’s other books before I picked up this one, but something about ‘Untamed’ caught my eye. It’s a beautiful design, but really it had me at the words “stop pleasing, start living”. This book is like a call to arms. It gives you permission to live your life on your terms - and in Glennon’s case that meant some really dramatic changes. She is courageous, vivacious and will encourage you to set yourself free.

How to Own the Room - Viv Groskop

Oh I loved this book. You’ll notice a theme here - these books are all about encouraging people to take up space and find their voice. Although this did come out a few years ago, it is one that earned a permanent place in my bookshelf. In our current climate we are seeing and experiencing mass unemployment and a job market that can not provide for everyone. Lots of people will be looking to, or be forced, to retrain or make career changes - that will mean lots and lots of job interviews! It’s ok to be nervous, reading this should help.

Work Like A Woman - Mary Portas

James Brown sang ‘It’s A Man’s Man’s Man’s World’, but it doesn’t have to be. Watch any episode of The Apprentice, and you would be convinced that there is only one way to succeed - be the loudest, sell aggressively, be a ball-breaker, word hard & play hard. Essentially - be masculine. This book calls itself ‘a manifesto for change’ because it presents a different idea about how workspaces can benefit from thinking differently. If the alpha culture doesn’t work for you, then you don’t need to play the game. We can instead embrace the more ‘feminine’ qualities of collaboration, flexibility and connection - and it really does benefit us all. Read the book, thank me later.

The Skills - Mishal Hussein

Again, this is one from a few years ago that I feel is very relevant to life today. It’s certainly one that I have turned back to this week. Mishal helps set out the tools that you need to thrive in your career, whatever that may be, but it is also a book about building self belief and not being afraid to put yourself out there. When new opportunities come knocking, it can be tempting to play it safe and pretend you’re not home - but what if you opened the door? Any change can be nerve-wracking - but we can adapt and you may even find yourself thriving. As an aside, another great book about pushing beyond your boundaries is The Discomfort Zone by Farrah Storr.

How to Fail & Failosophy - Elizabeth Day

So good she made the list twice! ‘How to Fail’ broke my heart, and built me back up again. I really connect with Elizabeth. This was the book that introduced me to her work and her podcast How to Fail. It is a wonderful listen, and on her podcast it’s so refreshing to hear big name, ultra successful guests admit the things that have gone wrong. Not that I take any joy in anyone else’s misery or mistakes - but in times of strife it’s good to know that it’s not just you. It also feels good to know that alongside their failures and regrets, these speakers have also come out the other side too and enjoyed success too. ‘Failosophy’ is a wonderful follow up to ‘How to Fail’ and a companion to her podcast. I particularly enjoyed the ‘Catalogue of Failures’. A reminder, or aid to keep on, keeping on.

The Empowered Entrepreneur - Elizabeth Cairns

Another Elizabeth! I was fortunate enough to meet Elizabeth on The Brand Stylist Retreat in 2018. She is the most warm, soothing & present individual - and her book exudes these qualities. This is one that you want to read slowly and savour. Whilst marketed to business owners with the subtitle ‘mastering the art of a thriving business’ - this book is 100% relevant to the individual also. Elizabeth ran the most incredible session in Mallorca about finding inspiration in everyday life (it brought many of us to tears, genuinely!) and it is something that I have used every day since. The main lessons I took from this book is the importance of staying rejuvenated. Creativity should never be a stagnant pool, you need a continuous flow in order to keep producing your best work - finding inspiration every day is what keeps it topped up and moving. I am more than overdue a re-read. I should also note that Fiona’s (The Brand Stylist) books are wonderful & beyond inspirational. I shall have to do a whole new post talking about them, the wonderful workshops I have attended over the years, and the Stay Home Seminars she has been holding over lockdown.

So I could go on and on, but I don’t think you’d thank me for it. There are so many wonderful books out there, that I could see this list just running and running. Even as I was writing this I was thinking of new books that I have not read yet, but which I could see as being great additions. Sabotage by Emma Gannon is one in particular that I have my eye on. How Do We Know We’re Doing It Right? by Pandora Sykes is one that I recently devoured.

I think this is a post that will require updates. But for now, I just want to say that this too shall pass.

Have you read any of the above? Let me know! If any pique your interest then please do support your local bookshop. The ones I recommend that are local to me are The Forest Bookstore in Selkirk, and Mainstreet Trading in St Boswell’s.

Happy reading!